Marriage is the most
important relationship of the life, but the bad thing is that most of
the marriages in today's time end at divorce. Rather than having a
life of love, couples are experiencing issues which deteriorate their
relation as the time passes. Nowadays, most of the couples are
struggling to retain this most precious relation of their life. No
doubt that they would be making efforts on their own, but the thing
where they lack is seeking the help of a relationship therapist. Some
people don't believe in the effectiveness of this therapy and some
just feel embarrassed to involve another person in their personal
relation. But, contrary to their thinking and feelings, the couples therapy is much effective in resolving the issues that couples can
face in the marriage lifetime.
Simply think of the
situation when you are no more interested in sharing your feelings
with your partner because of the reason that the conversation always
ends at arguments. Your relationship has reached at such a point that
you don't want to show your love to your partner even when you feel
it. It can be due to your ego or the desire that he/she should start
the conversation. When such a situation continues for some days then
you become habitual to it and this is the stage when the bond between
you become weak. At such a time, you need someone whom you can share
your feelings with and can get some help. And a relationship therapist is the only person who can help you as he/she has the
experience of dealing with such issues.
So, if you are facing
any problem in your relationship, then you must schedule a meeting
with a couple therapist as soon as possible. He will not only help
you know the reason behind your weakening relationship but will also
tell you the techniques to address those issues. If you are thinking
that how such a therapy can help you in improving your relationship
then let us tell you that the therapy will:
- let you know about the negative cycles in your relationship
- let you understand your own emotions better
- let you know your partner's inner world and desires
- let you know your strengths and use them for improving your relationship
- let you improve communication with your partner
- let you know each other better and get closer
Furthermore, along with
consulting a therapist, you are also recommended to attend “Hold Me Tight Couples Workshop”. Started by Dr, Sue Johnson (founder
of Emotionally Focused Therapy) and the author of “Hold Me Tight”, this workshop is based on the real life studies and on the
different patterns that affect the marriage. The proven strategies
and private exercises of this workshop will let you rekindle your
relationship with true feelings and deep love. In addition, videos of
other couples will also be shown to you for teaching you the ways
they have used to strengthen their relationship.
