Friday, 19 August 2016

The Increasing Need For The Relationship And Couples Therapy

Marriage is the most important relationship of the life, but the bad thing is that most of the marriages in today's time end at divorce. Rather than having a life of love, couples are experiencing issues which deteriorate their relation as the time passes. Nowadays, most of the couples are struggling to retain this most precious relation of their life. No doubt that they would be making efforts on their own, but the thing where they lack is seeking the help of a relationship therapist. Some people don't believe in the effectiveness of this therapy and some just feel embarrassed to involve another person in their personal relation. But, contrary to their thinking and feelings, the couples therapy is much effective in resolving the issues that couples can face in the marriage lifetime.


Simply think of the situation when you are no more interested in sharing your feelings with your partner because of the reason that the conversation always ends at arguments. Your relationship has reached at such a point that you don't want to show your love to your partner even when you feel it. It can be due to your ego or the desire that he/she should start the conversation. When such a situation continues for some days then you become habitual to it and this is the stage when the bond between you become weak. At such a time, you need someone whom you can share your feelings with and can get some help. And a relationship therapist is the only person who can help you as he/she has the experience of dealing with such issues.

So, if you are facing any problem in your relationship, then you must schedule a meeting with a couple therapist as soon as possible. He will not only help you know the reason behind your weakening relationship but will also tell you the techniques to address those issues. If you are thinking that how such a therapy can help you in improving your relationship then let us tell you that the therapy will:
  • let you know about the negative cycles in your relationship
  • let you understand your own emotions better
  • let you know your partner's inner world and desires
  • let you know your strengths and use them for improving your relationship
  • let you improve communication with your partner
  • let you know each other better and get closer

Furthermore, along with consulting a therapist, you are also recommended to attend “Hold Me Tight Couples Workshop”. Started by Dr, Sue Johnson (founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy) and the author of “Hold Me Tight”, this workshop is based on the real life studies and on the different patterns that affect the marriage. The proven strategies and private exercises of this workshop will let you rekindle your relationship with true feelings and deep love. In addition, videos of other couples will also be shown to you for teaching you the ways they have used to strengthen their relationship.

Friday, 1 July 2016

Relationship Therapy and True Compassion Development

A relationship grows with the understanding, this simple word has hidden meaning inside it, relationships bring responsibilities and Communication is a key piece of healthy relationships. Try to spend a few minutes each day discussing deeper or more personal subjects to stay connected to your partner over the long term. Disagreements are part of any partnerships, but sometimes it really affects both the partners. We have noticed different behavior during arguments: such as yelling, resorting to personal criticisms or withdrawing from the discussion — are more likely to break up than are couples that fight constructively.

Reasons can be many for arguments. Today, life is a fast pace that nobody has time but,  partners must devote their time to each other, try to spend a few minutes each day discussing deeper or more personal subjects to stay connected to your partner over the long term. But this is not at all easy, reason behind that is ego clashes. No one is ready to have a clear discussion, what the problem actually is? There is Workshop for Couples which helped many couples in solving their disputes, the main objective of such” relationship workshop” is to sort all the differences between couples by the way of communication. The essence of communication lies in an eye contact and its fact, when you make eye contact, you are actually communicating. You can experience the benefits of a relationship workshop in two ways: Attend a workshop or receive expert coaching in couples therapy sessions – or both! And many couples find attending both the workshop and therapy, complementary and extremely beneficial. You will definitely gain knowledge and guidance to help transform even the most difficult aspects of your relationship into opportunities for growth, healing, and joy. It becomes very difficult to come up with the conclusion that what went wrong when you had a disagreement, because we cannot assume or judge the thought process of partners. They feel pain and disillusionment of love gone awry, but they are unaware of the tremendous potential for healing that already exists in their relationship. This Couples therapist Workshop opens the door to growth and change by helping you understand the dynamics of partnership. This workshop will be an unforgettable experience for those who really want to be together in life.

What we observed is that when we are in an argument we always try to show that we are right. If you are right, you will definitely good about yourselves. But what do we get out of being right when we are in a relationship? If you really care about your partner, why would you want them to lose? These small things create a huge effect on our relationships. This Couples therapist Workshop will teach you how to let go the things, because you let go of your need to be right, you open yourself up to a generative and exciting environment where both you and your partner can learn and grow together. This also creates a safe space in the relationship where both you and your partner can trust the other to engage in compassionate listening and effective communication techniques.When you let go of your need to be right, you open yourself up to a generative and exciting environment where both you and your partner can learn and grow together. This also creates a safe space in the relationship where both you and your partner can trust the other to engage in compassionate listening and effective communication techniques.